ibabygirl**

I think everybody deserves to be happy. I think that people can change, if they wanted to. Some people make mistakes and admit to them you know. Not all “players” will stay players. Not all people who’ve hurt someone, will stay hurting someone. Life is about having faith in people. Life is about forgiveness and knowing that just because people do bad things sometimes, doesn’t make them bad people.

i’ve learned that it doesn’t matter what you’ve done in the past. what matters is how those mistakes turned into lessons. That you’ve learned from it. That you can admit to everything you’ve done. That you can say that you’ve hurt people, that you can say that you have made some poor decisions. But after all that’s said and done, you’ve learned & you still value yourself and your heart. And you have got to remember to forgive yourself.

Everybody has a past. It’s easy to get distracted by it, with old pictures, with old facebook comments, and little things like that can go a long way. It’ll start making you think of how your current person you’re in a relationship with was with someone else. And who wants to think of that? Nobody. So easy, don’t. Try your hardest to stay away from things like those and remember that the past is the past. And that those times are done. You can’t get trapped in thinking about how they were with someone else, because what matters is now. and that’s you, and him.

Sometimes you just feel tired. You feel weak. And when you feel weak, you feel like you wanna just give up. But you gotta search within you. You gotta find that inner strength and just pull that shit out of you, and get that motivation to not give up, and not be a quitter, no matter how bad you wanna just fall flat on your face and collapse.

We all want to fall in love. Why? Because that experience makes us feel completely alive. Where every sense is heightened, every emotion is magnified, our everyday reality is shattered and we are flying into the heavens. It may only last a moment, a couple months, years, or even a lifetime. But that doesn’t diminish its value. Because we are left with memories that we treasure for the rest of our lives.